一公升眼泪

听着 "一公升眼泪" Japanese drama 的主题曲 "only human"(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJmagzzfiJM&feature=related)
, 眼泪也不自觉的要掉下了.
心情也不自觉的变的有的悲伤...
如果可以, 心情不好时, 也可以借用这种方式发泄一下吧
哭吧, 哭吧, 不是一种罪过!
因为哭过的我, 希望借用这种方式把不愉快的, 让它如水蒸发掉...

"HERO"

看了HERO (http://www.cuhkacs.org/~hegu/Bo-Blog/read.php?266)
, 我的木村(Takuya Kimura) 还是那么帅气...

當然 還是最期待 他和松隆子之間能繼續維持曖昧情愫...
用了六年的时间去经营的曖昧情愫, 不过最后还是有情人终成眷属咯...

Bingo...

木村我可要偷偷地对你说, 我对你的"喜欢情愫"已不止六年了咯, 快十年了, 从Long vacation & Long generation 到现在...

愿你青春永驻...haha

好无聊, 真的好无聊...

今天的我真的好无聊...

Even have changed to supply planner now, but still feel pretty bored...
Thinking to ask for more task for this new designation, but one of the team member warmed me to do so...
Shall i taking the initiative to tell the boss, or shall i wait for her to assign more task for me?
Colleague told me i can do some of the self learning since i have some time...but, i am really lazy to do so, dont know where, how, and where to start...

Therefore, i have some time to update my blog...haha

大風無法搖撼一座山！( 很棒的觀念和想法)

原与你共勉之:-

當別人對你說了一些刺傷你的話，批評你、羞辱你，你會怎樣？
你會火冒三丈，氣呼呼地罵回去，或是忍氣吞聲地強壓下來？

然後呢？你是否會愈想愈氣，整個情緒都大受影響？

有天，佛陀行經一個村莊，
一些前去找他的人對他說話很不客氣，甚至口出穢言。

佛陀站在那裡仔細地、靜靜地聽著，然後說：
「謝謝你們來找我，不過我正趕路，
下一村的人還在等我，我必須趕過去。
不過等明天回來之後我會有較充裕的時間，
到時候如果你們還有什麼話想告訴我，再一起過來好嗎？」

那些人簡直不敢相信他們耳朵所聽到的話，和眼前所看到的情景
這個人是怎麼回事？其中一個人問佛陀：
「難道你沒有聽見我們說的話嗎？
我們把你說得一無是處，你卻沒有任何反應！」

佛陀說：
「假使你要的是我的反應的話，那你來得太晚了，
你應該十年前就來的，那時的我就會有所反應。
然而，這十年以來我己經不再被別人所控制，
我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。
我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」

是的，如果有人對你生氣，那是「他的」問題；
如果他侮辱你，那是「他的」問題；
如果他粗暴無禮，那仍是「他的」問題。
因為他要怎麼說，怎麼做，那是「他的」修養，
你能怎麼辦？

讓我再重複一遍佛陀所說的：
「我己經不再被別人所控制，我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。
我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」

☆ 你是情緒的主人，而不是奴隸。

曾聽過一則故事

有個人每天都固定向某報攤買一份報紙，
儘管這個攤販的臉一向都很臭，
但他還是每次都對小販客氣地說聲謝謝。

有一次和他同行的朋友看到這情形，便問他：
「他每天賣東西都是這種態度嗎？」

「是的。」
「那你為什麼還對他如此客氣？」

那人回答：
「我為什麼要讓他決定我的行為？」

☆ 是啊！我們為什麼要讓別人的表現來決定自己行為呢？

又有友新婚...

朋友明日将嫁了, 又一个...
as part of the "姐妹", 得好好想想整人游戏, haha

11th Dec 2007

It has been a long time i didn't update the blog, i must admit that i am too lazy to do so... it is because typing in Chinese character is too much troublesome and always take lot of time to do so...HAHA But, my poor English also cause me hesitate to do so...However, i think i shall take the initiative to have this habit, maybe while writing blog in English, my poor English can have much improvement, who knows? Hehe, so if you are reading my blog, i don't mind you can point out my grammar, sentences etc... It will be great, if you are willing to share ...

Dec 11, 2007, it is the 2nd appointment ,and H and P they are both going to have their own house... P has dream on this for quite a long time...it is finally going to become reality. The house located at Woodland, which near to Admiralty MRT, the owner told they that it's abt 5 mins walk to the MRT station, but none of them try to walk b4, perhaps they are telling the true... hehe
H is so busy with his study lately since the exam is coming to the corner and H won't has much mood to think on the renovation or decoration on the house yet...

The most headache part is the tile of the house which is in dark Blue/Grey, cos both of the house owner are Malay, so the tile also is bit of Malay style... Not thinking to re-do on the tile, it will cost at least SGD7K...
Aiyo, shall the sofa in red? wall all painted in white or light yellow? and the dinning table and seat are in glass (in transparent)?